You are Not Your Labels - Stephen Altrogge - Bible Study Tools I can't help who I am." We assume that what has been always will be. We willingly adopt the labels that come with the struggles: angry, anorexic, loser, trash, failure, addict. When we believe the labels we more quickly give in to temptation. "I've always been a slave to porn. It's just who I am. I might as well keep giving in to it."